When you become a step mum, you don't just take on the kids, you take on your partners whole past, including the ex. They may feel second best or even third wheel in the relationship. It can make even the sanest woman become an emotional mess!
You know all the answers, you just need to quieten your mind and find the time to unlock them.
We can all be judgemental at times, but the honest truth is it doesn't make us feel good and it doesn't mean we are in the right!